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Yes, you can get a divorce even when you can't find your spouse...

Under most circumstances, you must have a good current address for your spouse in order to get divorced in Ontario, Canada. This is because your spouse must be given notice of the divorce and a chance to contest it. The following Family Law Rules deal with cases where you can't find your spouse:

Rule 6(15) SUBSTITUTED SERVICE

The court may, on motion without notice, order that a document be served by substituted service, using a method chosen by the court, if the party making the motion,

(a) provides detailed evidence showing,

(i) what steps have been taken to locate the person to be served, and

(ii) if the person has been located, what steps have been taken to serve the document on that person; and

(b) shows that the method of service could reasonably be expected to bring the document to the person’s attention. O. Reg. 114/99, r. 6 (15).

Rule 6(16) SERVICE NOT REQUIRED

The court may, on motion without notice, order that service is not required if,

(a)   reasonable efforts to locate the person to be served have not been or would not be successful; and

(b)   there is no method of substituted service that could reasonably be expected to bring the document to the person’s attention.  O. Reg. 114/99, r. 6 (16).

If your spouse last lived in Ontario, and if he or she is a citizen or permanent resident and you don't have solid proof that he or she has left the country, you are more likely to get an order for substituted service, rather than having the court dispense with the service requirement. Examples of substituted service are service on a close family member who you believe is in touch with your spouse, or service by placing an advertisement in a newspaper of general circulation in the area where your spouse last resided. Service by advertisement can get expensive: if your spouse last resided in the GTA, the required ad would cost around $285 in the Toronto Star. Note: A judge in Toronto once required an Applicant to run the ad for 3 days, one of which had to be a Saturday (total cost for the ads was around $900). This has only happened once on an ezDivorce case. Normally, you only have to run the ad one time.

The court will not grant the motion unless you can satisfy it that you have done everything possible and within your financial means to locate your spouse. The following are suggestions on what to do: You should make prepare a list of all contacts with all known relatives and friends (names, phone numbers, relation and response). You should also search the phone book (online is fine) in the city that your spouse last lived in and confirm that all persons with the same name (last name and at least first initial) are not your spouse. If your spouse last lived in Ontario, and you have no reason to believe that he or she has left the country, you will in most cases be required to obtain the last known address held by the Ontario Ministry of Transportation. You cannot do this on your own, however we can do this search for you.

Our fee for preparing and filing the motion material is $250. If your spouse last lived in Ontario, and you have no reason to believe that he/she has left the Province, a driver's license address search is required @ $100. If the court rejects the motion, but gives instructions on what other steps are required, there is a fee of $100 to $200 to prepare and file the additional material. (Add 13% HST to all fees.) Note: These fees do not include running costs of effecting 'substituted service' if applicable (newspaper advertisement, etc.).)

There is no guarantee that the motion will be granted, however in most cases the judge who rejects the motion will tell you what additional steps will satisfy the court. ezDivorce has processed approximately 50 of these types of motions with a 100% success rate.

Note: This option is not available if you live outside of Ontario. If you do not live here, the only way you can get an Ontario divorce is if you can locate your spouse. If not, you will have to file where you reside.

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Updated on July 28, 2010